As a child, I grew up in a “culturally contradicting” environment as a result of having a father and mother of two different religions. I experienced a lot of bullying and racism from both communities within the larger family dynamic. By age 14, my mother passed away suddenly from cancer and the amount of emotional abuse and violence I experienced increased. I felt very alone and soon developed PTSD, severe anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem. As the years went by, I began to get into mindfulness and personal development and soon found some amazing holistic tools that helped me along my journey. I cured myself of anxiety and PTSD, and for 8 years, I have not experienced a single panic attack, while my thought processing became a lot more concise.

However, unfortunately, I started to notice that I still found myself attracting friendships and relationships that were mimicking my childhood dynamics. Through enhancing my self-awareness, I realised I was normalising things like over-giving and people-pleasing tendencies, which often found me depleted, underappreciated, and back-stabbed, and would further lower my confidence.

I started to take a hard look at myself in the mirror and realised something inside of me needed to change.  I was dedicated to making the correct changes in me so that I began to attract people and relationships that aligned with me. This process was not easy and also required finding out who I was beneath all the noise of “societal expectation” - as a person, and in my career. Through transforming my mindset, I went from a career that did not give me any purpose, joy, or drive into the complete opposite where I now also have autonomy over the life I wanted to design for myself. By learning to give myself the self-love I deserved, I was also able to create new patterns of thought that aligned with the person I wanted to be while creating stronger boundaries for my own protection in a healthy way. I was able to pour into my own cup as I have never done so before, and when I give, I give from a place of an overflowing cup, not a depleted one! I was able to maturely remove the people who were no good for me without guilt or external validation, and truly stand on my own two feet feeling more powerful, energised, and confident than ever.

Due to going through countless transformations of reconstruction in a variety of sectors in my life, I now help self-empower individuals to understand that with the right guidance, they too can convert from being a victim to a victor in life. I help other individuals discover and unlock a new way of thinking to attract new thought patterns and experiences in their lives by helping individuals get out of their stressed and dysregulated nervous systems and start to attract and experience life from a place of wholeness and ease.

So here's to self-empowerment, growth, and claiming back your rights - for you, for those you love, and for those to come!

With Universal Love, Purpose & Divine Light,

Neelam Kumari